What the Samurai Can Teach Us About Self-Improvement

A Seventeenth Century Samurai maxim states:"AOthers were highly skilled calligraphers. Others
man who has attained mastery of an art revealsbecame very skilled in the art of the tea
it in his every action"This saying is one of myceremony. Some became master
personal favorites. There is so much depth to itscarpenters.Have you noticed how these "ancillary"
meaning. Allow me to discuss it a little and explainskills are so diametrically opposed to their military
how it will be able to benefit you.First, a question:expertise with the sword? So how and why did
What is the single greatest thing that you can dothey engage in these things? Could it be that they
with mastery and excellence? Don't say: "nothing."were "balancing" their lives? Were they following
Everybody is good at something. Just think for athe concept of "yin and yang?"If you are not sure
moment.There will be one thing that you can dowhat yin and yang is I will outline it briefly for you.
perfectly time and time again. It is the thing thatBasically, it a Japanese recognition of the duality of
is so ridiculously easy for you to do that you canall things in nature. For instance, night and day,
do it with your eyes closed, almost standing onfemale and male, black and white and so on.
your head - so to speak. It may be a simple thingFurther, there is some night within day and some
or it may be something quite complex, butday within night and so on.Time for another
whatever it is you make it look easy.In fact, youquestion. Are you so set in your ways that you
are so good at it you make other people thinkrefuse to develop other skills? Can you not
that they can do it easily too - until they try. Itbroaden your horizons? Might you be able to
might be a sport like tennis or something as"balance" your life a little more?Think back to that
mundane as making scones or cupcakes.It'sone thing that you are able to do very well. Why
amazing how a champion tennis player can makenot take that mindset and transfer it to
the game look so simple. Or how a master cooksomething else? You can create a persona that
can seemingly slap ingredients together and comeshows other people that you are a special person.
up with an absolute masterpiece of culinaryOthers have done it. You even know them. Some
delight.So what is it? What are you a master at?of them might even be your close friends. They
Keep that thing in mind while I diverge back toare the people who seem to be good at
the samurai for a moment - a little bit ofeverything they turn their minds to. I'll bet you
history.The samurai lived by the sword and diedare thinking of somebody like that right now.Now
by it. They were so adept at reading bodyyou know how they do it. They are using the
movement that they were able to draw theirsamurai maxim.And just to balance the genders
swords and use them with deadly effect against(yin and yang):"A woman who has attained
opponents in the mere blink of an eye. Theirmastery of an art reveals it in her every
observations and reflexes were finely honed,action"Develop yourself. Improve your abilities.
principally because their very existence dependedYou can do it. All it takes is discipline and a
on it. But did you know that they were able towillingness to expand your mind. The samurai did
transcend their ability with the sword into otherit. So can you.
arts? Many of them were also master poets.