| Do you ever feel like understanding women is | | | | guy to come along and change that. So you've |
| impossible? | | | | got to be her Prince Charming. |
| One minute you're talking to her about her | | | | No, you don't need a horse, or be dressed in a |
| favorite ice cream flavor, and the next minute | | | | suit of armor. You just have to show her a FUN |
| she's mad at you because you made fun of | | | | time! That's it. And fun is a lot easier than you |
| strawberry as being the only flavor people avoid | | | | think. |
| like the plague. What the...? | | | | Movies? No. Dinner? No. Think outside the box. |
| Women are are emotional creatures, which | | | | Here are some things women find fun: |
| makes it that much harder to understand them. | | | | - Shopping: Take her to a couple of funky stores |
| But there is a way to figure them out. | | | | she's never been to before |
| IF you know the secrets! | | | | - Music: Take her to go see a live band that rocks |
| So I'm going to give you my top 3 secrets for | | | | - Arcade: Challenge her to some video games |
| understanding women. If you use this knowledge | | | | Just go look at the event calendar for where you |
| when you approach women and flirt with women, | | | | live and you'll have more things to do than you |
| you'll magnify your results by ten times what | | | | can possibly schedule in. And the best part is that |
| other guys get. Guaranteed. | | | | those are also the places to go to meet more |
| Let's start with: | | | | women. |
| Secret #1 For Understanding Women: She wants | | | | Give her a fun escape from her everyday life of |
| to play... | | | | boring guys who just want to see what they can |
| If there's one thing guys hate, it's the lack of | | | | "get" from her. Give her real value, and she will |
| control that we feel when we approach women | | | | recognize you as being the kind of guy that she |
| or talk to women. After all, women seem to | | | | can let her guard down with. |
| have all the control over things, don't they? | | | | Secret #3 For Understanding Women: 90% of |
| You've got to show confidence, walk up, open a | | | | success is just not being a "try-hard"... |
| conversation, and take things where they need to | | | | It took me a long time to get this one in my thick |
| go. You have to be a leader. | | | | skull, but when it came to understanding women |
| But in the end, SHE winds up having the final | | | | and what made them interested in me as a man, |
| decision, right? She gets to approve - or reject - | | | | it wasn't so much about what I needed to do as |
| you based on your performance. This feels like a | | | | it was NOT do. |
| ton of pressure, and with no guarantee of | | | | Most guys are working way too hard to get a |
| success. Who knows if you'll get her phone | | | | woman's approval. You can get a woman |
| number? Or a date? | | | | interested in you for a lot less energy, and faster |
| I know, not cool. But it's the way it feels. | | | | when you realize how this works. |
| One of the biggest mistakes guys will do is to get | | | | Again, most men are trying to impress a woman |
| frustrated when they don't know how things are | | | | to get her interested. The problem is that this is |
| going, and they do one of two things: | | | | the same thing that kids used to do, and it didn't |
| A) Hurry things up - We rush everything along so | | | | work then, either. |
| we can figure out whether this is worth our time. | | | | You remember that kid who used to work so |
| Does she dig us or not?or | | | | hard to get you to like him? He'd give you toys, |
| B) Try to "pin things down" - Try to make things | | | | or food, or compliment you, or ask you to come |
| more clear about where we stand with her. | | | | over and watch television at his house. And you |
| One of the vital keys to understanding women is | | | | might have taken the gifts, or the compliment, or |
| knowing that women HATE certainty. Oh, sure, | | | | gone over to watch television, but you had that |
| she'll say she wants to know where everything is, | | | | weird feeling that something wasn't right. You |
| but when she KNOWS how you feel for her, it | | | | wanted to like him, but you just felt more |
| kills the attraction she feels. | | | | annoyed about how he was always there - trying |
| It's just like a mystery novel. Would you bother | | | | to impress you and be your friend. |
| reading one all the way through if you knew the | | | | He was guilty of being a "try-hard." |
| butler "did it"? No way! | | | | Well, guess what? You may be older, but that |
| So play with her a little bit. Don't give her | | | | doesn't mean that we don't still try to win women |
| everything she asks for. Don't answer all her | | | | this way. |
| questions. Don't call her when she expects it. | | | | If there's anything about understanding women |
| Play with her a little and she'll thank you by | | | | that you need to remember it's this: You can't |
| getting more and more interested in you. It's a | | | | push a woman into liking you. |
| natural law of attraction that most guys break. | | | | She has to feel like she FELL into it. This is where |
| Secret #2 For Understanding Women: Give her | | | | we get that saying "falling in love." It has to feel |
| fun, and she will follow... | | | | like it was meant to be, and that destiny brought |
| Most of what women are looking for from a guy | | | | you two together. |
| is an escape. | | | | Otherwise, you just seem like that needy kid on |
| An escape from what, you ask? | | | | the playground driving her crazy. |
| The other needy guys out there that are driving | | | | So there you go - those are my three secrets |
| her insane by calling her or texting her every 3 | | | | for understanding women. |
| minutes. And an escape from her ordinary life. I'm | | | | While other guys are out there complaining about |
| sure you probably the same thing I used to - that | | | | how they're frustrated and annoyed with women, |
| some hot girl in a club must have an incredibly | | | | you can smile and nod your head at them. You |
| exciting life going on - but nothing could be further | | | | understand that women are simply working under |
| from the truth. | | | | their own "emotional logic." |
| The reality is that women are surrounded with | | | | And all you have to do is know a few simple |
| boredom - a boring job, a boring family, and a | | | | secrets to get past all the weird psychology - and |
| boring routine. And all she's waiting for is the right | | | | have her chasing after you. |