A Business Alliance is Not a Marriage - Part 1

A Business Alliance is Not a Marriage More Likepolitical or emotional undercurrents which can
Serious Dating... with a Prenupoften derail collaboration efforts.
When approached as a project, alliance efforts
"What kind of team building can we do to getcan move a group of non-partners into a
both sides of our business alliance working bettercollaborative effort.
together?" "How can we get them to trust usStill, for all of you out there who remain addicted
more?" "As partners, shouldn't we be looking atto the concept of teams and equitable marriage
the balance between risk and reward equally?"partnerships within the alliance movement, here's
These are just a few of the questions I've beenmy version of a 12 Step Program to help you on
asked in recent months. The answers, in my notyour way to Alliance Management Recovery:
to be popular opinion, are clear, succinct, and aStep 1. Make the language of the relationship
wee bit blunt. Hang in there though. Theproject based. Take out all language used
recommendations that follow can make this pillamongst yourselves (and which in turn may be
easier to swallow. First, let's debunk a few mythsfound in supporting documents) referring to
commonly associated with an alliance.teams, partnerships and equality in the alliance.
This is Part 1 of a 4-part series: Part 1 ●Replace it with a new relationship language thus
Part 2 ● Part 3 ● Part 4realigning the meaning. Terms such as the
First, a business alliance is not a team. An alliancefollowing will go a long way to resetting
is comprised of two completely differentexpectations: Collaborative project Project goals
organizations with independent objectives, diverseProject Schedule Project Budget Project Metrics ....
values and differing results requiring anYou get the point.
organization's specific reckoning- ergo, byWhat to do? Start with your own internal
definition, it is NOT a team.reference pieces. Create a project charter as a
Secondly, trust, the sought after metric instarting document to reset terminology and
alliances doesn't happen just because it's the thingprovide collaboration parameters. See Step 2.
to do in a pop culture society. It's been myStep 2. Create a Project Prenup. Via the prenup
experience that the TRUST we speak of so(or project charter), structure is given to the
loosely in our alliance circles comes about from agooey nature of working with other people across
deeply mutual respect based on congruity oforganizations. In it you will find items such as:
values stemming from shared experiences. OnePurpose Deliverables Assumptions Challenges
begats the other, and the begetting is inQuestions Project Scope (What's In... What's Out)
sequence. If you're familiar with the Book ofConstraints Decision Makers (Sponsors) Team
Numbers in the Bible, you'll notice an awful lot ofMember Roles and Assignment Risk Mitigation
begats. Hezekial begat Jebediah, Jebediah begatA project charter clearly spells out the significant
Abner who begat... well you get the gist. Trust isexpectations and rules for managing key
similar. It too requires a lot of begats beginningendeavors of the alliance. In it, both parties review
with a fair amount of time spent, sharedand agree prior to the project starting. To move
experiences, congruity of values, mutual respectthings along, you'll want to create a prenup for
with an eventual culmination in trust.each key project associated with the alliance,
It should come as no surprise then that whenwhich leads us to Step 3.
complete strangers begin surveying one anotherWhat to do? Craft a written project charter and
in the first few moments of their alliance, theforward along to your counterparts. Reference it
desired level of trust is less than stellar.throughout your efforts. The charter can act as a
Finally, an alliance is not a partnership. Why wouldconstructive contract directing collaboration
it be? There's rarely a perceived equity betweenefforts.
risk, investment and reward. One party is typicallyStep 3. Divide the Alliance Pie into Bite Size Pieces.
bigger than the other. One usually has more toIf you can segment some of the larger portions
win or lose than the other. There is no real equity,of the alliance into very specific project
thus no real partnership. When people behave asparameters, you're better able to manage,
though there are emotional conclusions andcoordinate, measure and monitor. It's like the old
context as to how the other party should viewadage of divide and conquer, only instead of
and regard initiatives in the alliance they are oftenRoman swords, you're using project charters,
led down a path in which communication andRACI Charts and Critical Path Crashing Schedules.
understanding breaks down. If you get right downThis also gives you an opportunity to pilot certain
to it, the complaints arising from thisproject practices in one area of the alliance
misconception tend to look and sound an awful lotbefore rolling out to other areas. By segmenting
like a marriage counseling session.the alliance into tangible project scenarios, you can
In short, alliances aren't teams. They're notminimize the potential for serious wrinkles (isolated
partnerships and they're certainly not a marriage.into one project area). Before the entire alliance
What are they? They're projects.applecart is upset, you've got a remedy in hand
Teams imply adherence to pre-established andand best practices discovered from your pilot, all
organizationally linked mission, vision, goals,of which can then be transplanted.
rewards, recognition and risks. Projects don't.What to do? Look at the project as a whole.
Marriage partnerships imply equality. Projects don't.Where are there logical project parameters?
Alliances are projects, in the purest and simplestCommercialization? Domestic vs. International
definition of the term. If we could just cutDistribution? Product Marketing?
through some of the rhetoric out there, reduceThis is Part 1 of a 4-part series: Part 1 ●
the number of surveys assessing feelings, andPart 2 ● Part 3 ● Part 4
re-assign the folks pushing equality andThe 12 Step Program to Alliance Management
camaraderie at any cost, we'd have more thanRecovery may not be for everyone, but we
just a handful of alliances to point to as thethink the tenets have some merit. At the very
successful "Come on! You can do it!"" benchmark.least, it should put managing alliances in a healthier
Framing alliance efforts as a project, forces bothperspective.
sides of the alliance to work from an objectiveFollowing a few of these steps should put you in
perspective versus a subjective one. Projecttrue business alliance dating form in no time.
management tenets constructively minimize