What Happens When the Shine in the Knight's Armor Dulls Out?

A woman in her forties is sitting out in her yard,commitment, the other seeking love that involves
waiting for the school bus to arrive home withan impractical outlook on what life after the
her kids in them. The edged life that she's lived isromance fades will be like. They are both thinking
written all over her face, particularly around herof the knight in shining armor.
eyes and her mouth where webs of wrinklesThe older woman thinks that she does NOT mind
surrounds them. She is a beautiful woman withthat her knight changes once in a while as long as
dark, splendidly wide eyes and a pouty mouth onethe romance remains hot.
would liken to Jolie. Her husband just came homeThe younger woman believes that there is only
from work but without a word to her, he hasone knight in shining armor and she unabashedly
disappeared into the room, hiding a bottle of ginthinks that he is the one. The younger girl has her
under his coat, she guessed.heart set on the first knight that strode up to her
For this woman, there is no hope of ever findingwhile the older woman believes that there is
true love...she once had the chance, but it's gonealmost always one more knight out there.
now. She's passed it up simply because theyLove is a consistent work-in-progress....there is no
were not meant to be. Sometimes she isend to the process and the search is a
bemused with her decision - fated to be nevernever-ending one, therefore, there is no such
together, always apart and longing for thething as one single knight in shining armor. In
fairy-tale romance that she could have had.comparison, the older woman is, undoubtedly,
*** ***closer to the truth than the younger one. But her
Above is an illustration of not what love is, notperception of love is unreliable because giving up
what love is supposed to be about, not aboutevery time something is not working is not the
what romance long-gone....but it's about the loss ofway relationships are supposed to work. We're
hope in finding true love. You see, I've been insupposed to work things out when there are
contact with a divorced woman who longs forthings that irk us until we reach a point where
love so much but she does not long for marriage.reparation is no longer worthwhile.
And I'm in contact with a teenager who thinksThe breaking point where knight in shining armor
that she has found true love and that she willturns into orge with bad habits depends on our
marry her college mate within a couple of yearsindividual tolerance, patience, faith and willingness
because he is her knight in shining armor.to turn a fairy-tale turn sour into reality.
These women, divided by decades of differenceLove is effort in bringing our heads back to the
where age is concerned, share one thing inground after we find out that there is no such
common. Love. They are seeking love. Onething as magic.
woman seeking forever love without the